“That is the magic of misadventure. The hardships and the struggle, the scary parts, even the undesirable parts all create this special bond that happens faster and holds stronger than the bonds made in our regular humdrum days. The humdrum days are important too. We have to keep showing up for those. But we shouldn’t consider all to be loss when the misadventure happens. We should hold on with all our might, pray for a good attitude, ask for forgiveness when we’ve lost it, and remind ourselves of this important fact: it will make a good story later.”