The husband wants more sex and the wife does not. This difficult problem is common in many families, because not everyone is aware of its importance. The only thing you will only share with your spouse and not with anyone else is sex. So having sex is also the only thing that helps you and your partner different from the situation of your roommates. It is an important part of marriage.
Not only that, but having sex also requires a deeper level of communication that you wouldn't normally do with anyone. Talking requires both to talk to each other about all feelings, about intimacy. For example, to have a really intimate night with your spouse, you need to tell him where he wants to be touched and maybe suggest some action as well. This can only happen when you both feel a level of comfort together that you've never felt with anyone else before. Both must be very sensitive when asking, giving and receiving. Your confidence in your spouse must reach a certain depth, that he or she will be willing to fulfill your needs and without judgment.
Sex as the starting point for love is not a question of morality but is inherently human instinct. The attraction of external beauty is also the point of arousing emotions towards love! Men can think about sex every day, even many times a day. Meanwhile, women don't often think about this. Only about 50% of women say they think about sex every week, the survey says. The rest have less time to think about sex. Besides, in dreams, men also dream about sex more than women. This number is usually twice that of women. The same goes for masturbation. Therefore, in relationships, most men are active and want more intense relationships. They also ask for more. Not only did this happen during the first time of getting to know the couple, but it continued for many years thereafter.
The above difference comes from the sex hormone levels of men and women. The man's brain is subject to the hormone testosterone. In addition, the level of this hormone in a normal man is very high and it "pervades" the body. This makes men think more about sex than women. And on average, 52 seconds they think about sex once. Whereas the woman's brain is subject to many factors. Scientists are also finding an answer to their difficult sexual needs.
Talk about secret issues and physical touch that can create a passion for your marriage. That said, you have put him above the level of his friend. You think about the relationship between the two is something deeper. Nothing helps couples create stronger, more effective vibe, passion and romance than having sex. When couples come to me for advice on their sexual life difficulties, sometimes they are surprised not to find me focusing on the technical aspects or the number of relationships I have in my life a week. Whether they see each other twice or 10 times a week is not worth mentioning. It is more important that sex becomes an intimate experience and brings them together. If this does not happen, the relationship is simply the obligation to pay the bill, then their marriage cannot be said to be happy.
Sex is not something to be ashamed of. We need to believe that sex is a natural human need during puberty and the years to come throughout life. This trust will help us to be open, flexible and creative in exploring sexual thoughts and feelings. We need to enrich our sexuality to create a responsible, healthy, and quality sex life. Sex is essential for the happiness of a couple and for maintaining good health. Knowledge of sex should not be considered a delicate matter, but should be taken seriously.
This article below show you some quotes about sex in love
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1. “It's not true that I had nothing on. I had the radio on.” - Marilyn Monroe
2. “Everything in the world is about sex except sex. Sex is about power.” - Oscar Wilde
3. “I don't know the question, but sex is definitely the answer.” - Woody Allen
4. “Fighting for peace is like screwing for virginity.” - George Carlin
5. “We waste time looking for the perfect lover, instead of creating the perfect love.” - Tom Robbins
6. “If you want to get laid, go to college. If you want an education, go to the library.” - Frank Zappa
7. “Good sex is like good bridge. If you don't have a good partner, you'd better have a good hand.” - Mae West
8. “We are all born sexual creatures,thank God, but it's a pity so many people despise and crush this natural gift.” - Marilyn Monroe
9. “The difference between sex and love is that sex relieves tension and love causes it.” - Woody Allen
10. “The main reason Santa is so jolly is because he knows where all the bad girls live.” - George Carlin
11. “sex is the consolation you have when you can't have love” - Gabriel García Márquez
12. “In a perfect world, you could fuck people without giving them a piece of your heart. And every glittering kiss and every touch of flesh is another shard of heart you’ll never see again.” - Neil Gaiman
13. “Sex without love is as hollow and ridiculous as love without sex.” - Hunter S. Thompson
14. “No woman gets an orgasm from shining the kitchen floor.” - Betty Friedan
15. “Sex is kicking death in the ass while singing.” - charles Bukowski
16. “Is sex dirty? Only when it's being done right.” - Woody Allen
17. “Anyone who is in love is making love the whole time, even when they're not. When two bodies meet, it is just the cup overflowing. They can stay together for hours, even days. They begin the dance one day and finish it the next, or--such is the pleasure they experience--they may never finish it. No eleven minutes for them.” - Paulo Coelho
18. “Physics is like sex: sure, it may give some practical results, but that's not why we do it.” - Richard P. Feynman
19. “Boys and girls in America have such a sad time together; sophistication demands that they submit to sex immediately without proper preliminary talk. Not courting talk — real straight talk about souls, for life is holy and every moment is precious.” - Jack Kerouac
20. “Books are finite, sexual encounters are finite, but the desire to read and to fuck is infinite; it surpasses our own deaths, our fears, our hopes for peace.” - Roberto Bolaño
21. “Sex is an emotion in motion.” - Mae West
22. “Anyone who is observant, who discovers the person they have always dreamed of, knows that sexual energy comes into play before sex even takes place. The greatest pleasure isn't sex, but the passion with which it is practiced. When the passion is intense, then sex joins in to complete the dance, but it is never the principal aim.” - Paulo Coelho
23. “Someone told me the delightful story of the crusader who put a chastity belt on his wife and gave the key to his best friend for safekeeping, in case of his death. He had ridden only a few miles away when his friend, riding hard, caught up with him, saying 'You gave me the wrong key!” - Anaïs Nin
24. “But when a woman decides to sleep with a man, there is no wall she will not scale, no fortress she will not destroy, no moral consideration she will not ignore at its very root: there is no God worth worrying about.” - Gabriel García Márquez
25. “You know that old saying. Once you go dead, no one's better in bed.” - Jeaniene Frost
26. “Love is the answer, but while you are waiting for the answer, sex raises some pretty good questions.” - Woody Allen
27. “Sex is the most fun you can have without laughing.” - Woody Allen
28. “I believe that sex is one of the most beautiful, natural, wholesome things that money can buy.” - Steve Martin
29. “Some people claim that marriage interferes with romance. There's no doubt about it. Anytime you have a romance, your wife is bound to interfere.” - Groucho Marx
30. “Why should we take advice on sex from the pope? If he knows anything about it, he shouldn't!” - George Bernard Shaw
31. “You can live to be a hundred if you give up all the things that make you want to live to be a hundred.” - Woody Allen
32. “Clinton lied. A man might forget where he parks or where he lives, but he never forgets oral sex, no matter how bad it is.” - Barbara Bush
33. “Sex without love is a meaningless experience, but as far as meaningless experiences go its pretty damn good.” - Woody Allen
34. “If our sex life were determined by our first youthful experiments, most of the world would be doomed to celibacy. In no area of human experience are human beings more convinced that something better can be had only if they persevere.” - PD James
35. “I couldn't possibly have sex with someone with such a slender grasp on grammar!” - Russell Brand
36. “He f**ks even better than he looks”, I settled on saying. Several heads turned. I didn’t care; I was pissed. “And that beautiful face is going to be clamped between my legs as soon as we get home, don’t you worry.” - Jeaniene Frost
37. “So she thoroughly taught him that one cannot take pleasure without giving pleasure, and that every gesture, every caress, every touch, every glance, every last bit of the body has its secret, which brings happiness to the person who knows how to wake it. She taught him that after a celebration of love the lovers should not part without admiring each other, without being conquered or having conquered, so that neither is bleak or glutted or has the bad feeling of being used or misused.” - Herman Hesse
38. “For women, the best aphrodisiacs are words. The G-spot is in the ears. He who looks for it below there is wasting his time.” - Isabel Allende
39. “Don't wreck a sublime chocolate experience by feeling guilty.Chocolate isn't like premarital sex. It will not make you pregnant.And it always feels good.” - Lora Brody
40. “A man can sleep around, no questions asked, but if a woman makes nineteen or twenty mistakes she's a tramp.” - Joan Rivers
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After all, sex is just a physiological need. And love needs many factors. Including care, sharing and environmental factors. This also means that if you do not show love (through cuddling gestures and words) and rush into her to satisfy their needs, it will be difficult for them to feel satisfied.
So instead of arguing about sex and creating distance between the two of them, couples need to learn how to actually talk about it. They also need to learn to open their hearts to listen to what their spouse wants, feels and needs, not only as a recipe for a bed party but also a recipe for a happy marriage. Again, even though men like sex and women need love, it doesn't mean that men don't need love and women don't need sex. Male sexual desires are not evil or sinful. Of course it must comply with the law and be agreed by the other party. And the need to be loved by women is not too much.
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